I do not call myself a feminist, mostly because the word have kind of a bad meaning (not sure if this is just in Sweden or international). But I guess that I am a feminist, I do believe that everyone should get the same salary disregarding of sex. I do believe that women should be bigger in politics and I believe in the female capacity. I hate al of those sexist bastards and I think that me being gay have made me more feminist. Example, if I’m at a club and someone touch my butt (or some other “sexual” part of me) I would just turn around and punch him in the face. No one can just claim that right without asking. The thing I hate the most is that men says things like “A gay guy just hit on me, I knocked him out”. What the actual fuck? Straight men hit on me a lot when I’m out, IT’S THE SAME THING! Like this summer when me and my girlfriend were in England for my brothers wedding. We went out with the bride and some of her friends for a hen night and some guys started hitting on both me and my girlfriend. Being a Swede is not always a good thing, guys go crazy.. Anyway, after a while I told them that we weren’t interested because we were lesbians. I told them that we were a couple and that we had been together for over one and a half year. Do you know how they reacted? They started screaming, getting even more excited, asking us how we had sex, if we used any toys and so on.
I do dread this EVERY time I go out, because as soon as a guy hears you’re a lesbian they try so much harder to get you. They’re trying to convince you that guys a better and so on. I fucking hate this, it shouldn’t be like this. At all.
Oh my, this wasn’t really the point of this post.. The things stated above, I do not see them as feminist thinking or any of that kind. I think that is just normal, how every fucking person should feel. That’s why I do not call myself a feminist because all those things that feminism stands for is for me just human rights.
The point of this post was actually that even though I don’t call myself a feminist, my girlfriend does. Or well not really like that, but she’s always like “Pisa you’re such a feminist” etc.
BUT today I was eating dinner at a fastfood restaurant with my mother and my two little brothers and we were talking some about Mitt Romney, gay rights and all that stuff. And I mentioned this (that I do not call myself a feminist) and she said “Oh, you’re SO not a feminist, rather the opposite”. I was just like “………WHAT? Why?” Do you know what she answered me? “Well, first of all you’re kind of a oppressor of women.” I thought this was hilarious because it is kind of true, well not really. I am gay, meaning I prefer women over men in relationships and sex. Though I have a tendency to be quite mean to the female “race” (NOTICE THE ” ). But I still think women are superior!